Excellent observation, thank you David. I’m not sure how to respond without 1. Deleting my answer (I shouldn’t have said it), 2. Apologizing (my go-to response nowadays), or 3. Offering compensating remarks acknowledging my own deficiencies like telling you I can be a very difficult person to live with and also didn’t know how to deal with anything stressful assertively and maturely. The good news is, if I could do it all over again, I’d make the same choices as I’ve had the opportunity to learn so much and I have two amazing children. As I become a better person, so do those around me.